Glowstone is not used underneath the roadways, it's used on the bridge pillars several blocks up which means you deliberately broke them. There couldn't be a situation where you got "stuck" in the road and had to break 6 jack'o'lanterns to get out since the road isn't even that wide with those blocks underneath, and you got yourself out of a single chiseled part of the road. Meaning you broke the single chiseled stone, mined all the jack'o'lanterns in a circle around the one block, and built back up out of it. Let's not forget that these events happened in two completely different areas over 500 blocks away from each other.
InsaneJ cares more for this community than anybody else, period. Nobody was "berating" you. You came back to our community after a year and a half with an attitude and entitlement. Rather than simply solving a minor issue together you came out guns blazing and attacking. Heck, InsaneJ even went and looked into your ban appeal after specifically saying he wouldn't and you still shot back with attitude.
I've banned a lot more than 189 people (lots before MCBans) and every single person was deserving for breaking rules specifically laid out for the HappyDiggers servers. Many have successfully appealed their bans and we haven't had a problem with them since. There are rules posted on our website, rules on our server advertisements, rules in the server announcements, rules in commands, rules in the bloody tutorial. Anybody breaking a rule has no excuse, you had every opportunity to talk to the staff about your mistake. According to the evidence posted I didn't discover and ban you for 42 days after you broke the road. 42 days.
We take our servers and community seriously. Next time you find a server you want to play on take the 2 minutes to read and respect the server's designated rules. You don't pay for the servers, the server owner does. If you don't like it, pay for your own server and you can do whatever you like.
The ban stays. This ban appeal is concluded.